It's much more important to forgive and remember. Remember how you felt and how you dealt with it, so when it happens again, as it so often seems to, you can remember that you did manage to get to the point of forgiveness. It also helps to remember the route you took to get there.
If you don't intend to forgive, forget as quickly as possible, so you don't get caught up in some sort of messy revenge plot. Screw that. Just walk away. Easier said than done, but a better idea.
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